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NONBINARY ACE LEBIANS UNITE!!
It doesn't matter what you look like, it doesn't matter how old u r, it just matters that u love urself
Happy Pride Month Everyone!
It was this month that I came out to both my mom and my big brother that I was Pansexual. And the only thing my mom said was, “You’re my child, I do not care, but you had better still make me a grandma”
So I made this! This is me (in the middle with white hair), my boyfriend (who we will just call Sparky), and our friend Minda!
I remember after coming out to my brother I was picked on by some kids in the neighborhood, but my brother hugged me and said…
It’s okay… to love yourself for who you are…
That is SO true. ☝🏻 My family does this all the time, and I hate it. 😞
Don’t ever let anyone get you down (too much or for too long,) and don’t let it define your worth. ❤️🔥 YOU ARE ENOUGH.
Don’t listen to the lies.
best thing you could have ever said to me. like my dad always says. the only way to treat a cold is with contempt. I present: the only way to treat Sad Boi hours is with disdain
[ID: screenshot with the words "And yeah we've all got limits and flaws and whatever"]
We love Aros! Aroaces like me or you AroAllos are super valid too! Love all my Aro bros
Asexual and aroace are trending!! However, we can't leave out Aromantic!!
C'mon, let's get it trending!!!
✨ ~ being aro/ace is valid ~ ✨
Crutchie says aro and ace rights🐸💚💜
Yes, also those who are still figuring themselves out :) <3
✨ ~Your gender is valid~ ✨
My...my mom just accused trans people and scientists of starting the Corona virus.
its honestly so sad to have to see kids going through this here in the great fantastic USA rn. I know how other kids can get and as an American citizen who has family(not trump supporting) who work for the government that might lose their jobs, im directly impacted by this. Stay safe everyone- and remember, you are valid
A reminder to the children of America.
You are a child. It is not your job to fix this. You can’t help this. You have to stay safe, even if that means lying about your political beliefs. Put yourself first now so you can put other first in the future.
since apparently it’s Valentine’s Day, system appreciation post!
You’re valid if you’re endogenic
2. You’re valid if you’re traumagenic.
3. You’re valid if you’re mixed origins. 4. You’re valid if you don’t know or care about your system origins. 5. You’re valid if you are a median. 6. You’re valid if you are polyfragmented. 7. You’re valid if you’re mostly blurry. 8. You’re valid if your parts are clear and distinct. 9. You’re valid if you don’t experience co-consciousness. 10. You’re valid if you experience co-consciousness. 11. You’re valid if you experience co-fronting. 12. You’re valid if you don’t experience co-fronting. 13. You’re valid if you hate being a system. 14. You’re valid if you love being a system. 15. You’re valid if you don’t know how to feel about being a system. 16. You’re valid if your trauma doesn’t fit the ‘typical norm’ or expected experience. 17. You’re valid if you have factives/fictives/fucktives/songtives, etc 18. You’re valid if you have hundreds of thousands of headmates. 19. You’re valid if you only have a few headmates. 20. You’re valid if you are looking for final fusion. 21. You’re valid if you are looking for functional multiplicity. 22. You’re valid if you’re a tulpa. 23. You’re valid if you’re an introject who doesn’t want to be like their source. 24. You’re valid if you’re an Introject who does want to be like their source. 25. You’re valid if your system isn’t very active. 26. You’re valid if your system is extremely active. 27. You’re valid if you have a core. 28. You’re valid if you don’t have a core. 29. You’re valid if you have a host. 30. You’re valid if you’re hostless. 31. You’re valid if you have a headspace. 32. You’re valid if you don’t have a headspace. 33. You’re valid if you have a relationship with another headmate. 34. You’re valid if you’re a bodily minor OR adult system. 35. You’re valid if you don’t like some/all of your headmates. 36. You’re valid if you love all your headmates. 37. You’re valid if you’re a disordered system. 38. You’re valid if you’re a non-disordered system. 39. You’re valid if you’re introject heavy. 40. You’re valid if you’re brain-made heavy. 41. You’re valid if you’re non-human heavy. 42. You’re valid if you’re covert. 43. You’re valid if you’re overt. 45. You’re valid if you’re an age regressor. 46. You’re valid if you’re a pet regressor. 47. You’re valid if you don’t identify with the body. 48. You’re valid if you do identify with the body. 49. You’re valid for feeling angry about those who hurt you. 50. You’re valid if you have a lot of control over your system. 51. You’re valid if you experience little to no control over your system. 52. You’re valid if your system structure is complex. 54. You’re valid if your system structure is simple. 55. You’re valid if you’re mono conscious. 56. You’re valid if you’re biconscious or triconscious. 57. You’re valid no matter your conscious term. 58. You’re valid if you want labels about your experiences. 59. You’re valid if you don’t want labels for your experiences. 60. You’re valid for having source trauma. 61. You’re valid for not having source trauma. 62. You’re valid for having alters split due to other alters either negatively or positively. 63. You are valid if you split for no reason, or a reason you can’t identify. 64. You’re valid for being different from the norm. 65. It’s okay to be wrong about your identity. Even if you aren’t plural, it’s what fit you at the time. Identity shifts. We’re always learning about ourselves. You made a mistake is all, you’re not a monster for making a mistake.
I could go on and on for days, but I think you get the jist.
YOU ARE VALID. NO MATTER YOUR EXPERIENCE. YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE REAL. YOU DONT NEED TO FIT INTO THE CONFINED BOX OF REQUIREMENTS TO BE CONSIDERED PLURAL.
Happy Valentines Days, everyone. <3