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I'm questioning my gender cuz I still definitely identify as a guy, but like also kind of nonbinary kind of in a demiboy way but also kind of not at the same time if that makes sense, so I'm changing my pronouns from he/him to he/they/it mostly because I want to experiment with what I'm comfortable with being called
(being called it is probably going to remind me of pennywise every time but I lowkey kinda fuck with that)
Remmember that ‘Gender’ text
So, yeah.....
I wrote a text some time ago called gender, and I just recently red up on some different attractions and founds
Greygender
Greygender (graygender): a person who identifies as (at least partially) outside the gender binary and has a strong natural ambivalence about their gender identity or gender expression. They feel they have a gender(s), as well as a natural inclination or desire to express it, but it’s weak and/or somewhat indeterminate/indefinable, or they don’t feel it most of the time, or they’re just not that invested in it. They’re not entirely without a gender or gender expression, but they’re not entirely “with” it either, so to speak. In summary, they know they have a gender(s), but either it’s indefinable or they are just not invested in the concept of gender.
And I need help
I don’t really care for what pronouns to use and if I call my self he, she, they, ey, fae, ve, xe, ze, zie I don’t feel any different.
If I call myself a boy or a girl or demi of a kind, I feel nothing no joy.
Help, i don’t understand
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pls comment and help me:(
I’ll never put my pronouns publicly on my profile not because I’m an asshole that thinks that gets sensitive over the little words people call us by but because I want to be a little mysterious
Like so what if I want to be a figure in a hood hiding behind corners literally so what
(Going no tags with this one because what if something really crazy happens)
Pronounce, wait no, promar, wait no, prarnarns, wait naurrr I ment do u have pernarns uh ye you know what I mean
Yes I have pomegranates, they are she/her
(I didn’t put them in my bio because, until recently I put he/him. It was cool!!! but I dont really think i’m trans anymore)
(Also I still don’t put she/her in my bio because I dont want random people knowing my gender on the internet because I dont want it to affect the way my art is perceived yk? But if you ask i’ll tell you ofc tee hee)
Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.
this post must be reblogged by everyone
PSA
Still using they/them after finding out someone's pronouns doesn't include they/them is misgendering
If someone specifies that they don't use they/them, don't use it. That's misgendering them.
Using they/them after someone has specified that they don't use they/them is misgendering
If you continue to use they/them after learning that they don't use it. You are misgendering them.
They/them is misgendering if you know their pronouns (and it doesn't include they/them)
Again for the people in the back,
They/Them is not a catch all pronoun if you know their preferred pronouns already
a thing I do that annoys people out of the lgbtqia+ community
I use they/them pronouns for everyone
like If someone is he/him I’ll use he/them accidentally, e.g. ‘oh yeah he’s over there, what do you need them for?’
or ‘it’s not her fault if they’re like that’
it helps with calling people with pronouns they/them’ correctly, and most people don’t care or notice, but I’ve had at least three people go ‘I don’t go by them!’ And I had to apologise :’)
Today someone at work called me sir and it gave me so much gender euphoria srsly I was so freaking happy! But then I ruined it by talking with my stupid customer service voice and they corrected themself and called me ma’am :(
When you say you use any pronouns are you ok with someone choosing a set and mostly using that one or do you want more variety?
yeah, that's totally fine.
just don't choose she/her and use that religiously
other than that, I'm fine with someone using the same constantly :)
haha very funny
French is already super complicated, adding a few pronouns won't make it much more complicated.
Fuck it I’m changin em to he/they
I’m so sick of people judging me based on my gender. From now on my gender is .
I am a .
My pronouns are / .
My LGBTQ Identities
No one probably cares, but i just want to say this somewhere lol.
I am genderfree, genderblank, schrodigender, and blankboy. I am also aroace, bellusromantic, gay, androromantic, and ambiamorous.
I use they/it/he; in order of preference.
My chosen names are Malachyt, Rayn, and Cerberus.
Have a nice day/night/afternoon/morning! :)
Wowzers those are my pronouns!
Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.
this post must be reblogged by everyone
uhh I have a question
so I’ve been thinking about also using xe/xir pronouns but idk if neurotypical people are allowed to use neopronouns. please help me!
Pronouns are peepee/poopoo and you will address the queen as such
In near-future speculative fiction story, highly politicized faction refuses to use pronouns completely. Including indefinite pronouns. Including first-person pronouns.
Can conceivably be pro- or anti- inclusivity ideology, small group or large group.
Faction's speech is weird and stilted, although similar to English "brevity wording" found on signs and instruction manuals. Surprisingly easy to understand, considering complete restructuring of speech pattern and grammar.
Same group does not use contractions, but unrelated. Abandonment of contractions pure affectation driven by pomposity.
Blog post is self-demonstrating.
hey full offense but the ‘use the right pronouns even if the person is horrible!’ statements arent made to coddle horrible ppl, its saying ‘dont view correct pronouns as a fucking privilege that can be taken away once people decide you’ve fucked up enough’, misgendering someone on purpose is transphobic no matter what bc it equates transphobia as a ‘punishment’ for bad people, pronouns are a part of baseline human respect, its that simple
It's kinda funny how when some people see a person with it/it's pronouns they said that it's pronouns are "dehumanizing" but it's dehumanizing to THEM, It's that other person's pronouns not yours, if it's comfortable of using it/it's pronouns they let it be who it are! It may be dehumanizing to YOU but not to IT.
Pronouns 101
Finnish personal- & demonstrative pronouns Subject on the left, possessive on the right
English personal pronouns (Reflexive pronouns are a whole thing. More on that later..)
Idk what type of pronoun 'it' is, officially, but it felt natural to include here
English demonstrative pronouns. Nice and simple
I'm no expert on linguistic terms. I'm just here as a bilingual, introducing people to Finnish due to popular demand. Please don't butcher me
Supposed to be a Dragonborn sorcerer, but I forgot the tail :) So, here is Rai, (she/her but okay with any neopronouns). She is a demiromantic pansexual!
Yesterday's answer was He/They/It, as a few guessed.
Today we got:
Geminitay; A minecraft youtuber and streamer!
Do we know I'm genderfluid? We do now. Okay, let's play a game called "Guess the gender/pronouns based on who I'm gender-envy-ing"
Quick warning tho; the answer isn't always what the person I'm envying's preferred pronouns are.
Today's round,
Ricky Jamaraz, a talented indie music artist you can find anywhere if you wanna check him out.
Do we know I'm genderfluid? We do now. Okay, let's play a game called "Guess the gender/pronouns based on who I'm gender-envy-ing"
Quick warning tho; the answer isn't always what the person I'm envying's preferred pronouns are.
Today's round,
Ricky Jamaraz, a talented indie music artist you can find anywhere if you wanna check him out.