Hallo i'm just curious because i know everyone has a different experience with being demigirl but what is your experience like? :0
Hi anon I hope I'm understanding your question correctly 😭 I don't even really know how to put my experience into words properly but it's kind of like I present as a female/femininely in the more social aspect of things but in the mental aspect I don't feel like female (or strictly female at least) aligns with how I feel on the inside y'know. There's kind of like a void somewhere in the spectrum inside of me where the concept of binary gender as a whole doesn't feel right whether it's male or female but female at least feels somewhat right to an extent, because as I said I present in a feminine way. But it's a little complicated because I also don't naturally assign gender to things, what others see as feminine/female clothing for example, are just clothes to me- they look nice and I like how I look in them, but I've never thought of it as something for females, like I could see anyone wearing the kind of clothing I wear and it'd still just be plain and simple clothes without the 'feminine' attached to it- and this could apply to anything where people see that thing as gender-aligned. I try to consider a lot of things from a more general societal standpoint (how most people gender things I mean, I didn't really feel anything was 'gendered' until I had to learn how others perceived things in those ways if this makes sense) which has definitely caused me confusion and trouble over how I identify and to be honest I'm not even sure if the demigirl label is something I'll forever stick with either? Even after so many years of exploring and trying to understand this aspect of myself it's still a 'work in progress' 😭 Gender or the lack-thereof is supposed to be a personal experience, something a part of your own identity and being and not something that society, or anyone else for that matter, gets to influence or determine but I'm a hypocrite for saying that when I know it's influenced how I identify so. I kind of really don't have the words to properly describe how I experience my gender but I try to consider it in a way that'll be less confusing for others I guess. Anyway this was way longer than it needed to be lol, thanks for the ask anon and I hope you have a good day/night.
Natsuki is profic and so are the others probably ❤️
Absolutely! Canon! No one can convince us otherwise <3
Hey luvs, if anyone wants to rant to me about anything then my asks are always open <3 I hope youre all well, just know you deserve as much love as anyone else and are genuinely some of the nicest people ive met, take care :) ♡♡♡
hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D
Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3
Hi yandere enjoyers, specifically yandere otome enjoyers, do you have any recs for yandere otome games? Or games that have a yandere character/characters? I've heard itch has alottt but I dunno which ones are worth trying! 😭
I hope ur having a wonderful day OP <3 don't forget to also take care of yourself! (o´・∀・)o
Awhh how sweet! Thank you! Same goes for you anon. Take it easy, you've done great today!
Just a reminder that 1. You owe absolutely nobody an 'explanation' on why you enjoy dark fictional content and 2. You don't NEED to indulge in dark fictional content for the sole purpose of coping with trauma/processing trauma for it to be a valid use of your time and attention. If you do, that's wonderful and I'm so glad it provides you with that comfort, but it isn't an obligation to be able to enjoy it. Have fun with it, and please don't let what others say make you feel like you need to explain yourself, or that you need to be doing it for trauma related reasons, because that isn't true. Okay? Okay. Take care now!
I'm gonna be working 12 hour shifts for the next while I feel like I should queue up some posts but I'm so tired I can't think of anything to make posts about helpp 😭
Proship selfshippers, did you know your f/os are so in love with you, like so in love it makes them look stupid... I'm chatting with them right now and they just won't stop talking about you! I don't mind, but I think they should be saying these things to you directly... Matter of fact, I'm sending them to you right now, your f/os can't wait to see you! Oh and for the f/os that are too devoted or introverted to talk to anyone but you, I just overheard them rambling to themself about you.. but I think they'll be on their way to see you soon as well :)
🦋[Heya lovely, how are you? I hope youre doing good <3 This is just a reminder to take care of yourself, and to try your hardest to ignore what anti's have to say, theyve done some really fucked up and cruel stuff, stuff ive personally never seen proshippers do or even threaten to do. So just know youre so amazing, and truely a treasure to the community and to the world in general, the proshippers i interact with are all very kind and accepting, and i hope everyone else's experiences are the same <3 Make sure to eat, drink some water, and just do whatever you can today, even if its barely anything, even if its only to get out of bed to use the bathroom- just know im super proud of you either way. As always, the inbox is open :) Take care lovelies ♡]🦋
Hey, just saw your post about autistic proshippers and I (dude who is audhd) didn’t even realize that my ships could be a hyperfixation. Three definitely are, there’s no doubt about it, I can’t stop thinking about them. It’s an everyday occurrence. Soooo uh thanks for making me realize the obvious lmao, hope you have a good day.
Ohh interesting, feel free to pop in and talk about those ships anytime you'd like! I'm all ears. I hope you have a good day as well anon!