Just A Reminder That 1. You Owe Absolutely Nobody An 'explanation' On Why You Enjoy Dark Fictional Content

🦋[Hello hello lovely vocaloid proshippers!! May i remind you that it is absolutely wonderful and valid that you ship problematic things with the vocaloids? It is SO valid! Do you ship underraged vocaloids with adult vocaloids? Cool! You do you! <3 Do you interpret certain vocaloid ships as abusive/insestual/toxic/etc? Wow, thats interesting! The ship was great before, but you added ☆spice☆, and honestly, thats super valid n cool ♡ It doesnt matter what you ship, or how you ship them, just know you are super valid, and the antis shouldnt have any impact on what you like <3 Be happy and ship whatever the hell you want!]🦋

Are you okay with doing shoutouts? If you are.. I’m calling all lovely proshippers to my blog to rq moodboards/stimboards rn :D also you have such cute and amazing vibes mygodd

Ofcourse im okay with doing shoutouts!! Your blog looks amazing btw, i love the boards youve done so far! Youre v talented <3 Id really recommend if u guys who follow me go request smth from her :) And awe tysm!! Thats so sweet, you also give really amazing vibes, take care darling!! <3

hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D

Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3

If pro-ship and dark-ship aren't the same why do you say pro-ship should not correlate to your views irl in your pinned, are you saying you shouldn't be anti-harassment irl?? Genuine question btw I don't understand.

Hi anon, I'm glad you asked, I felt like I needed to elaborate on that more since I started to realize it could cause some confusion/misunderstandings oops 😭 What I mean by saying that, is that when you are proship, you are aware that every ship deserves to exist in fiction, whether or not it's something you like, right? But I'm saying that shouldn't translate to what you believe should be okay to exist IRL, as in you know, for example, incest ships are okay to exist in fiction because it's fictional, no real person is being hurt, and though maybe it's not your cup of tea, you'll just block it and move on knowing it's okay for it to exist in it's fictional realm. But you shouldn't believe it's okay for that sort of relationship to exist in real life. I'm sure most people know this, y'know, but just in case. I see a lot of people who only think things shouldn't exist for the simple fact it disgusts them or makes them 'cringe' and it's to the point those things shouldn't exist IRL because it causes harm to real people, so if someone happens to not be disgusted by that kind of relationship IRL, maybe because they know it's okay it exists in fiction, and decides it's okay for that relationship to exist IRL just as much as it's okay for it to exist in fiction, then that's just not something I can agree with, so I put that disclaimer so people know right off the bat that everything I'm supportive of in dark fiction does not correlate to what I see as acceptable IRL, plus proship and profiction is purely for fiction in this regard- everything deserves to exist in fiction, as it causes no harm to real people. Though, I don't go out harassing anyone of course, this is the stance of a proshipper; antiharassment, I just block people who have views that are too contradictory to mine for me to get along with. If I ever felt someone was at risk of doing harmful things IRL I'd report them as needed and then block. All in all it's just a disclaimer for people to know if I'm someone they can interact with or not. This isn't to say I'm just strictly against paraphiles by the way, I do think there's a difference between someone holding a harmful attraction and getting help for it and knowing it's NOT okay to have that kind of relationship IRL so they don't pursue it, versus thinking it's okay to have that relationship IRL and/or pursuing it (therefore causing a real person harm), but this part mostly ties into my anti-contact stance. I hope this all makes sense and if you need anything else to be elaborated on please do ask! I like to avoid misunderstandings as much as possible and am always open to explaining anything that needs to be elaborated on. Think of that 'there's no such thing as a stupid question' saying because that's what I believe in lol

ive truly always wondered how antis could say that proshipping is bad and it reflects your morals yet agree that if, for say, youre a lesbian yet you like a fictional character that is a male, then that doesnt inherently reflect your sexuality, does that make sense? its the same concept 😭

that being said proshippers are completely and 100% valid and all deserve so much love and care, i care for you all and wish nothing but the best for you ♡ stay safe, take care of yourselves, eat. drink water, be happy, be free. mwahmwah ♡

I always had a hard time with self shipping because people always made it weird that I was into it to the point I couldn’t, but other people did it no problem, and even now it’s hard to do without cringing like 😭

Awww sweetie! Im so so sorry, selfshipping is absolutely NOT weird, whatsoever! It is mainly used a coping mechanism too, and i dont stand for people making fun of coping mechanisms, or hypocrisy! If theyre allowed to do it then you are too, no buts about it! Have fun with selfshipping love, its not cringy at all no matter how you selfship, its a wonderful thing to explore and have fun with, be you and be happy, do what makes you comfortable, and just know i fully support you on it! Feel free to gush to me about your selfships whenever you like! ♡♡♡

Thank you for following my blog 👉🏻👈🏻 knowing someone as kind as you accepts me gives me hope and love

~ @shyproselfie

I can't tag myself due to how I have my blog settings on purpose

You're so sweet awh 🥹 Ofcourse I accept you! You are 100% valid and accepted here and i'm glad to offer a space where you feel as such. Take care of yourself!

When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !

I get really confused when an openly proship blog follows me but they reblog from a bunch of antis, I'm really unsure of if they just don't check people's blogs therefore they're reblogging those posts because said posts don't have proship dni on that specific post (I've seen especially a lot of selfship posts that have no indication of if proshippers can interact or not but their dni is on their pinned, so if it's just some random post on your feed like that it seems like there isn't a need to check the blog etcetc), or if they're, y'know, an anti posing as a proshipper 😭 I don't want to block someone over a misunderstanding since I like making mutuals but it's quite confusing. I moot a lot of people who follow me so if I haven't it's probably because of this misunderstanding (if it is a misunderstanding) and feel free to dm me to let me know, but also if possible please check dnis on people's blogs if you reblog/interact with them very frequently. I get it if they just don't have their dni in an easily accessible spot/you need to go through loops to find their dni but if their dni is on their pinned and you reblog from them frequently I'll probably misunderstand due to the nature of antis posing as proshippers. Sorry 😭 I also try not to moot people who purposely break dnis too so I also can't tell if it's done on purpose when it's done so much. It's just confusing for me, I might even sound a little silly right now but 😭

kay why ess <3333

Anon are these all you or. Because all of these came in basically at once?? (CW/TW for self harm + suibaiting, and general nasty threats/comments, for whoever comes across this post)

I normally really do just ignore anon hate unless if I feel there's something I can elaborate on in the ask but you're like spamming my inbox, just block me or if you're incapable of doing so for some reason or another let me block you. Harassing me will actually do nothing for you, maybe temporary satisfaction I guess but all in all you'll just do yourself more bad than good. Once again- block me.